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#24: Alexandra (SO/SP 9w1 963) — Triple-Attachment Life, Choosing What's "Mine," & Discovering Friendship Intimacy
Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo [SO/SP 9w1 963(154)] is a brilliant Enneagram thinker with a very evocative and inspiring triple attachment life story. There’s no one I trust more to explain Attachment from the inside....
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#23: Kristen Oberly (SO/SP 9w1 963) – Dreamwork, Depersonalization, and Coming (Back to) Life via the Unconscious [SO/SP 9w1 963]
Kristen Oberly [SO/SP 9w1 963(172)] is an exceptionally gifted dream analyst, artist, and guide for the unconscious realm. We explore her misdiagnosis with paranoid schizophrenia, her bouts with depersonalization, and...
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#22: Sarah Round 2 MetaConvo (SO/SP 9w1 937) — Attachment Games, Rupture & Repair Cycles, and Realtime Conversation Dynamics [SO/SP 9w1 937]
Round 2 with Sarah [SO/SP 9w1 937]. A conversation ABOUT our last conversation, and a very personal look at both of our attachment games. I loved this.
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#21: Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937) — Positive Outlook Spin, Blurring Fantasy & Reality (and Gaslighting), and Finding Your No [SO/SP 9w1 937]
Sarah [SO/SP 9w1 937] is getting her PhD in psychology en route to becoming a therapist. In this conversation, Sarah is quite open and courageous in sharing what it's like for her on the inside of her "swirly 9-7...
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#20: Emily (SO/SP 8w9 836) — Enneagram Skepticism, Social Power Dynamics, Untouchable Independence, Sensitivity
Emily [SO/SP 8w9 836] is a beautiful example of a heart-forward 8 who has done significant inner work and values her sensitivity. We get into what it means to be in a social "power position," why that's important for...
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#19: Czan (SO/SP 9w1 953) – Twice an Immigrant, Toggling "Existing" On/Off, & Owl Medicine
Czan [SO/SP 9w1 953] is a software engineer for a gaming company and currently lives in the US. He's an original Enneagram thinker, and "Attachment to Disconnect" is his profound insight into how Attachment types...
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#18: Nancy Walter (SP/SO 3w4 369) — Being Good at Things, Identity Experiments, and Choosing to Live
TRIGGER WARNING: sensitive content. Nancy Walter (SP/SO 3w4 369) is a co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast and is currently navigating graduate school in genetics. In this extremely candid interview, we talk...
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#17: Charles (SO/SP 9w8 963) — Resensitizing After 20 Numb Years, the Goldilocks Zone, Being “Cool” Not Meticulous
Charles is a 42 year old father of four that's been married for more than half his life. He’s started multiple businesses and currently runs a small internet marketing and web agency. He self-describes as a “body type...
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#16: Kier (SO/SP 3w2 358) — Hiddenness and Secrecy, Avoiding Introspection Through Constant Activity, and Not Giving Up on the Heart
Kier  [SO/SP 3w2 358(267)] is a trial lawyer, dad, and frequent commenter on Enneagram discussion boards like the Enneagrammer Universe Facebook group. This is our second conversation — we didn’t publish the first one...
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#15: Emma Scott (SO/SP 6w7 612) — Resentful Accommodation, Making Things a Bigger Problem Than They Need To Be, and Getting Present in the Mental Center
Emma is an Enneagram coach and mom, and she has her own podcast called There Are No Tangents. In this conversation, you get to see Emma model presence in the mental center as she incorporates a new insight about...
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#14: Jamie Eichar (SP/SO 9w1 963) — Being a Comforting Presence, Making Space For Yourself in Conversations, Rebelling Against Pressure
Jamie (SP/SO 9w1 963) is an gifted cinematographer, an aspiring therapist, and a good friend that I met in my first Enneagram class. He has committed to his inner work in extremely courageous ways and has great...
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#13: Kaisa Jauhiainen (SX/SO 9w8 935) — Hooked or Catatonic, Erotic Releases of Anger, Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct
UPDATE: Kaisa's Heart Fix has been updated from 3w4 to 3w2.
Kaisa is a psychology and neuroscience graduate student and Enneagram enthusiast with an exceptional ability to articulate her experience of being a Sexual...
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