#34: Chanti, Enneagram 7 - Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want [SX/SP 7w6 794]

"I think it's my purpose in life to leave an imprint on people or places I go. Maybe it's like little seeds that I plant or pixie dust I spread around and it blooms a little bit. I just love that."

Full Title: Chanti, Type 7 - Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want

Chanti [SX/SP 7w6 794] is a fascinating and magical human being living in Belgium. We explore how how assertive Chanti can be about her priorities, the difference between frustration and attachment perspectives, and the centrality of her aesthetic impact to her identity. Enjoy. Note: I make a mistake in the first minute, calling Chanti "social first." She is sexual first.

Chanti's Links
YouTube: @MOONFLOWER_asmr
Insta: @moonflowerchanti

The Enneagram School
https://www.theenneagramschool.com/

Timestamps

0:00 Intro

3:10 Magically enhancing the space between us

10:57 Bumping heads with 6s, being assertive about standards of art, creativity

14:12 Frustration with 6 colleague about "having to be grateful to boss" for being "allowed" to go on a trip

16:43 Chanti vs Josh's "rule-following" disposition (Frustration vs Attachment)

20: 14 "When people like me I can do whatever I want"; but when charm doesn't work, gets under my skin

26:11 Social blind 7 moment

36:05 Being low superego, story of family, brother's expectation (Frustration vs Attachment) -- low "obligation" energy

44:35 Rationalizing vs coming from sincere inner place

48:27 Chanti's values "vs" Responsibility

52:42 Other's "shoulds" about contraint, my "shoulds" about freedom

56:24 Convincing myself "why I should do something," asking for permission til I get yes (6 wing)

59:41 New nourishment -- social, listening, attunement in relationship

1:08:32 Hidden Social/Heart suffering when others don't value me for my aesthetic contributions

1:18:27 Our SO/SP 3 vs SX/SP 7 conversation dynamic

1:21:12 Chanti's ASMR

1:26:48 Not fun to be social or 6-fixed? ...

1:30:44 Outro & plugs!

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